My Little Corner of the World

Thoughts on raising and homeschooling a special needs child who has Aspergers, Tourettes, and ADHD. The life of a domestic goddess. Documenting the life of Superman (11 yrs) and Ladybug (4 yrs).

Monday, March 06, 2006

Sometimes black and white is best

Superman was on the phone the other night with my Dad. He hasn't been sharing a lot lately about how he feels since his Grandpa passed away. But when my Dad called him, he seemed to let it pour out. He said "I have some sad news. Grandpa J passed away. Sometimes I feel sad, but there are a lot of people who are still living that love me."

Kids tend to see things in black and white. They haven't travelled enough miles in life to start adding in shades of grey. The parts where things get confusing and you constantly doubt yourself. It's in times like these that I need that black and white perspective. Someone died, and it's sad. It's incredibly sad and it's okay to feel sad. But there are a lot of people who are still living that love you. It's okay to be happy and to move forward and to remember the good parts of the person that you will miss. Today I learned a life lesson from a 7 year old.

Wouldn't life be simpler if we could all tap into that black and white side from time to time?

1 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your heart and your mind are as wondrous and immense as any creation in our universe....you are that star sent to guide Superman & Ladybug as they learn to negotiate their own special pathway in this world!!! Always follow the path of your heart.

8:20 PM  

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